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A Guide to Discernment

What is a
Vocation?

"Love is the fundamental and innate vocation of every human being." — Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2392

Introduction

What is a Vocation?

A vocation (Latin: vocātiō "a call, summons") is an occupation to which a person is specially drawn or for which she/he is suited, trained, or qualified.

Use of the word "vocation" before the sixteenth century referred firstly to the "call" by God to an individual, or calling of all humankind to salvation, particularly in the Vulgate, and more specifically to the "vocation" to the priesthood or to the religious life, which is still the usual sense in Roman Catholicism.

"Love is the fundamental and innate vocation of every human being."

— Catechism of the Catholic Church, 2392

Roman Catholicism recognizes marriage, single life, religious and ordained life as the four vocations. Both senses of the word "call" are used in 1 Corinthians 7:20, where Paul says "Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called."

The idea of vocation is central to the Christian belief that God has created each person with gifts and talents oriented toward specific purposes and a way of life.

More specifically, in the Orthodox and Catholic Churches, this idea of vocation is especially associated with a divine call to service to the Church and humanity through particular vocational life commitments such as marriage to a particular person, consecration as a religious, ordination to priestly ministry in the Church and even a holy life as a single person.

Key Points

  • Vocation is a call from God, not merely a career choice
  • It is rooted in love — God's love for us and our response
  • Four recognized vocations: Marriage, Single Life, Religious Life, Ordained Ministry
  • Every person has a universal call to holiness through Baptism
  • Vocation includes using one's gifts for the greater common good

Church Teaching

Understanding a Vocation in the Catholic Tradition

Two Internal Elements

In the Catholic Tradition, a vocation consists of two internal elements:

1

Good Intention

A firm will to make use of the means necessary to pursue that intention.

2

Qualities & Capabilities

The qualities needed to live the way of life one desires — a lack of obstacles or impediments.

St. Thomas Aquinas

In the Summa Theologiae, St. Thomas explains that religious life, being founded on Christ's own advice, is the better way of life. Therefore, if someone wants to enter religious life (has a good intention), and doesn't have any definite obstacles, then he should go for it!

St. Alphonsus de Liguori

St. Alphonsus adds a third, external condition for a true vocation: acceptance by superiors.

"There is a true vocation whenever the following three things concur: First, a good end, namely, to get away from the dangers of the world, the better to insure eternal salvation, and to unite oneself more closely to God. Secondly, that there is no positive impediment due to poor health, lack of talents, or some necessity on the part of one's parents. Thirdly: That the Superiors admit him."

— St. Alphonsus de Liguori

St. Francis de Sales

"A true vocation is nothing other than the firm and constant will possessed by the person called, to want to serve God in the manner and in the place where the Divine Majesty calls her. This is the best mark one could have to know when a vocation is true."

— St. Francis de Sales

This firm will should not be confused with a feeling of wanting to continue pursuing a path; it is rather the voluntary resolve to do so. For a true vocation, what is necessary is not a multitude of virtues, but a resolution to work perseveringly towards perfection.

The Process

Vocation Discernment

Vocational discernment is the process in which men or women in the Catholic Church discern, or recognize, their vocation in the Church.

What is Discernment?

Discernment is a process by which we are helped to reach a decision in the light of faith and in the context of our personal reality and the realities of the world in which we live.

Discernment involves trying to identify what is of God, what is for our full happiness and for others — distinguishing that from what is not of God or from what is simply driven by ego, societal expectations, family or peer pressure.

"There are two specific ways of realizing the vocation of the human person, in its entirety, to love: marriage and virginity or celibacy."

— Pope John Paul II

Helpful Hints

  • Discernment isn't easy and it takes time — be patient with yourself and God!
  • Keep a journal to record your thoughts and reflections.
  • Come with an open heart — be prepared to be surprised by God!
  • Choosing one way means letting go of another — even a good one.
  • It's always hard to choose between two or more "goods".

Eight Steps of Discernment

1

Place Yourself in God's Presence

Make quiet time for prayer. Listen to your heart and to God in the movements of the Holy Spirit.

2

Find a Spiritual Director

A wise and trusted soul-friend who can help you deepen your relationship with God.

3

Pray for Freedom

Pray for freedom to understand and choose what is in harmony with God's designs for you.

4

Weigh Your Alternatives

Write down your options. Consider the appeal, advantages and disadvantages of each.

5

Consider Your Gifts

Realistically consider your gifts and limitations, deep desires and needs.

6

Listen to Others

Listen to words of confirmation or affirmation from others in your process.

7

Seek Peace

Where are you feeling peace? What most draws you close to God?

8

Decide & Confirm

Gently come to a decision. Search out further confirmation in prayer and action.

Universal Call

Holiness: The Foundation

Rooted in Baptism

The universal call to holiness is rooted in our baptism. It is a call to know, love and serve the Lord.

Movement Toward God

It is a movement that draws us toward a deeper union with God. We feel a growing desire to love God and to love our neighbour.

Ongoing Conversion

The universal call to holiness is an ongoing conversion experience. It keeps opening our eyes to new awareness of God's loving presence.

Aligning Our Will

It keeps inviting us to turn toward God by aligning our will with God's will.

God Loves Us More

We must believe that God loves us more than we love ourselves and that God wants our happiness more than we want it.

True Happiness

God's will for us is our only chance to be truly and lastingly happy. If God had given us everything we ever asked for, we would be seriously unhappy.

Our Congregation

The Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate

"The call of Jesus Christ to follow him and share in His Mission by word and work, has brought us together in the Congregation of the Missionary Oblates of Mary Immaculate."

St. Eugene de Mazenod's Vocation

1808

Eugene answered a call from God and entered the seminary to become a Diocesan Priest in France.

1816

Eugene gathered a few Priests to assist him in working with the poor. This marked the beginning of the Oblates.

1826

Pope Leo XII approved the Congregation and its Constitution and Rules, giving it the name Oblates of Mary Immaculate.

1841

The Oblates started acquiring their Missionary status by responding to the urgent need to bring the good news of Jesus Christ to the poor in Montreal, Canada.

Worldwide Presence

4,440

Total Oblates Worldwide

Young men, old men, priests, brothers & those in formation

580

In Formation

Having already made their first commitment

165

In Formation in Africa

The highest number of young men in training

700+

In Africa

1,450

In Europe

630

In Asia

Also present in Latin America (360), Canada (750), and the United States (480)

Southern Africa Presence

The Oblates are found across Southern Africa, serving God's people in multiple nations:

Lesotho

South Africa

Namibia

Zimbabwe

Zambia

Angola

What is a Religious?

A religious is a person who is called by Christ to a life of witnessing to the gospel values and to dedicate his or her life to Christ through the vows of Chastity, Poverty and Obedience.

A religious can be a brother, a sister, or a priest.

The Evangelical Counsels (Vows)

Chastity

We consecrate ourselves to Christ and at the same time, give ourselves to the people we serve. We thereby free ourselves for a love which reaches out to everyone.

Poverty

Poverty allows us to enter into communion with Jesus and his Poor. We contest the abuse of power and wealth and proclaim to all a new world freed from selfishness, a world open to sharing.

Obedience

We become the servants of all. It is our way of making real and true freedom of the Gospel, in common submission to God's will.

Mary Immaculate, Our Patroness

"Mary Immaculate is the patroness of our Congregation. It is with her, the faithful handmaid of the Lord, under the guidance of the Spirit, that we enter into a closer union with Jesus Christ."

Final Word

Conclusion

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Love makes us seek what is good; love makes us better persons. It is love that prompts men and women to marry and form a family, to have children. It is love that prompts others to embrace the consecrated life or become priests.

— Blessed Pope John Paul II

Live Faith Deeply

Each vocation challenges us to live our faith more deeply and to follow Christ more closely.

Joy & Sacrifice

Each vocation involves times of lasting happiness and reward but also suffering and sacrifice.

Discover Yours

Do not compare vocations but appreciate the value of each one and discover which is right for you.